Stability of Love

A stable life is one that’s based in love. It doesn’t mean life will always be the way that it’s wanted, but the more you love the less “I” there is that goes through emotional swings…

It’s so easy to feel connected to life when things are going the way that you want, but how about when things aren’t going your way. Our connection to life should never be different regardless of what is occurring, but because of the Conditioned Mind the tendency is to think life is better when it’s as wanted. Our stability shouldn’t be contingent on life occurrences because this will make life an emotional roller coaster. To be controlled by the occurrences of life is to be controlled by our conditioning as if we were puppets on a string. It’s only this way because it’s what we unconsciously have put into place. If we were conditioned differently our reactions to life occurrences would be different, maybe not better, but definitely different.

The key to breaking free from the hold of this is to identify if our reactions to what occurs are beneficial. If they are, it’s our obligation to preserve them so we can benefit others, but if they aren’t it’s up to us to change them; they will not change just because we notice them. Many people know their actions aren’t much of a benefit to anyone except themselves, yet they still act the same, why do you think this is? It has to do with what is at the core of our being. If love isn’t at the core of our being reactions we will be hard pressed to be of love. There is much responsibility with this because it’s love that changes the world and if you are aware of this you will have an obligation to cultivate love so it’s at the core of your life. When you do this you can become the stability this world so desperately needs regardless of what’s occurring…

No Real Need for Answers

The Conditioned Mind makes you believe you need answers, but you don’t. Your true essence beyond the confines of a Conditioned Mind is the limitless acceptance of what is where there isn’t a need for anything, especially answers…


Although your mind always wants answers, sometimes the answers you get aren’t the ones that are wanted, and sometimes you don’t even get an answer. The real problem lies in the mind, not the answers or the lack of them. When things occur that make you believe answers are needed, it’s very difficult for there to be acceptance because the mind has been conditioned to need an answer. As this is the case for most, if there isn’t acceptance it makes for very uncomfortable situations. The real problem of this is that it’s your own mind that creates this needing answers nonsense.


Life is not something to be figured out. Actually the more you think you have it figured out the less you know what’s going on. It’s your Conditioned Mind that wants to put life in a box of space and time, but the moment this is done our existence becomes limited, and the limit is a limit of a mind that doesn’t truly have a limit except for what it conjures up. Understand this created limit is the conditioning not the mind itself, your mind is limitless, it’s a product of the Universe, which is also limitless so how can the mind not be the same? Our parents are human, so we too are human, how can we not be? This is just an example, we are actually of the Universe as is our mind. We are one in the same.


The mind can be understood to a certain degree, but the limitlessness of it cannot because it has never been experienced. Instead of needing answers, be in the moment of what is and allow this to be your answer. This way the mind won’t have to make up beliefs because it will have its answers and there won’t be any need to make one up…

Truly Content

Life isn’t a blessing because you have much, it’s a blessing because you give much. The more you think your life is a blessing because of what you have, the less content you will truly be…


Being content is regarded as a place most people want to be, but it’s not necessarily the most beneficial place for a person to be. It may seem like it is, but it’s only because of the unconsciousness and ignorance that’s in control of so many lives. If your contentment is not based purely in the fact that you’re alive, the contentment will be illusionary. There are a lot of people who are content selling drugs, stealing, pimping, and many other dysfunctional behaviors and although these behaviors are extreme, there are as many people who are content in being wealthy and successful even though there are many people who are struggling to make ends meet. Then there are the politicians who are content making decisions based on what is best for them or their political affiliations and not for people as a whole. Most people aren’t really content with their life or they wouldn’t always be looking for the next satisfaction, or carrying around so much anger, guilt, envy, righteousness, jealously, pride, and greed. If one is content, nothing other than being alive would be needed, but this is not the way it is because to be content you must serve others by coming from a place of love. Not a self serving love, but a love that’s of the Universe. This love has nothing to do with what you have it’s contingent on what you give.


Life is not a blessing when you have much, it’s a blessing when you give much. The more you think your life is a blessing because of what you are have, the less contented you’ll be. If you don’t think this is so how contented would you be if all your so called blessings were not there, would you still be content? If your life isn’t based in love for others then it will be impossible for it to be a contented one because life will be about what you have, not what you give. Life is not a blessing because you have much. You can only be truly contented when it’s understood that life is based in your love for others and what you give. You will never be truly contented because of what you have; just something to think about…

Inner Presence

The noise in the head won’t subside on its own regardless of what belief is held onto. As a matter of fact your beliefs actually hinder the mind from settling because they are a distraction to your inner presence…

If the noise in your head is in control it doesn’t matter much what’s going on as it’s going to be difficult to be aware of presence. It’s such a noisy world and what makes it so is most people are looking for an answer out there when the answer is within, so what the noise actually is and how it’s created is by not being aware that you already have your answers. With a mind that’s conditioned to want answers, you have to constantly look for them, hence the noise. This is how the agitation of a Conditioned Mind is formed and how it blocks awareness to our inner presence. It’s the noise created because if you knew you had your answers the need to look for them would be non existent and so would the noise.

Even if you understand this the noise may not stop completely, but it will begin to at least subside. It is imperative to understand this if your inner presence is to be experienced in life. If you don’t understand this, the noise will never stop, at least while you are alive, this is why it’s imperative to understand this now. Why wait to be at peace later when you can be at peace right now. It’s not like the noise is needed to live life, its only there because you unconsciously put it there. A little practice equates to a little peace. This is a direct exertion of your free will. Whether you believe in God or not inner presence won’t happen on its own. It’s up to you to do what’s necessary to stop the noise, as you practice the noise subsides and you are left with inner presence. If you are waiting for anything else, you will be waiting a very long time and inner presence will probably never happen…

Unity With Yourself

In the space between your thoughts is your unity with yourself; with life. The more space that’s created, the more this unity infiltrates not only your life, but the lives of others…

In each moment a decision is made unconsciously to either create a story about whatever’s going on in the Conditioned Mind or create space between your thoughts. These places are vastly different on an individual level and collective level. If the decision is to constantly create your stories, your mind will never settle and your true essence of unity will not be allowed to infiltrate your life or the lives of others. Creating a story is the decision of most people because of the ignorance of your own conditioning; it’s what your taught. There’s nothing right or wrong in this, it’s just what’s in place. It will take much quietness to make a different decision, with the quietness affording you an opportunity to wake up and become aware of your conditioning.

When this other decision is made to create space between your thoughts it involves no conditioning at all; it’s the place of unity with ourselves. The results of this unity is what’s needed to change your individual and the collective conditioning. When there’s unity with yourself we will cease fighting anything or anybody. You will not regret anything you have done in the past; you’ll be at peace. You’ll help others through the compassion of your awakened heart and self seeking will become non existent.

When you are in unity (at one) with yourself, your struggles are no more because it’s the created story that causes your struggles. When there’s awareness of the space between your thoughts there’s no story and without a story it’s impossible to struggle. In this space of awareness it becomes known that your struggles are just what’s created by a Conditioned Mind and you discover not only unity with yourself, but with all that is…

To Be...Or Not...

The true essence of life will never be understood by trying to understand it. Life is not a doing simply because you exist regardless of anything that’s done. Defining life through what you do is your doing, not life’s…

To be and to do are a part of life, but doing occurs from being. You can always be, but you don’t have to always do. Actually if you aren’t aware of being, whatever is done will be a distraction from the true essence of being. Our experiences are a result of what we do in life, but they don’t make life what it is because if they didn’t occur, life would still be. Doing creates stories. Being creates life.

Think about the most beautiful thing you have ever seen and experienced, now how much does it have to do with life right now? It is a fond memory, a story, but this exact moment would still be regardless of what is seen and experienced. At the time I’m sure the experience was something else (to the Conditioned Mind) but it really has nothing to do with right now. The story of it does because it’s made so, but that is your doing not life’s. This is why it’s said to “Just Be” not Just Do, because to be is the true essence of life. This simple saying can be used as a tool to stop the monkey mind doings in its tracks. After all, we are called human beings not human doings because it’s only in being that you will reach you full potential so just be or not…

In the World, But Not of It

Understanding the freedom of being in the world, but not of it only occurs when it’s learned to live life as it happens instead of attaching to the senses…


One saying that really stays with me in my daily practice is “To be in the world, but not of it” It’s one that’s repeated throughout the day as the Conditioned Mind constantly tries to make me of the world. This is the view through the senses that the Conditioned Mind uses to form attachments to the material world. It’s not a true view, it’s a view that constantly needs to arrange life the way you think it should be by making it personal. Without attachment being of the world can not occur.


The only way to be in the world, but not of it and not be controlled by it is to understand how this control occurs. It’s a developed view through our senses that allows this control to happen. We see a world that becomes personal and it pulls us right in, but life isn’t personal, it happens even if there’s no “you” here. When it’s made personal, everything that happens happens to you, but life doesn’t do this, the Conditioned Mind does this. Nothing happens to you unless you allow it.


When you’re with life as it is it’s never personal because it’s understood nothing happens to you, it just happens. The timeless, ageless view of being in the world, but not of it only occurs in the present moment, it’s never personal though, it’s just life. Learning to have a view of simply being in the world allows for the energy to truly live life. What’s needed for this view is to see the world through an inward view, which is of the heart, instead of an outer view which is through the senses of the Conditioned Mind. When there is no longer attachment to the Conditioned Mind, it’s then that you can be in the world and not of it. This is the freedom of non attachment to a world controlled by the senses…

Harmony With Yourself

Harmony with yourself results in your ability to love others. It’s a simple decision to be made, but a self serving mind generates chaos with itself just as a mind of love is a mind that is in harmony with itself…


The simplicity of life is related to your ability to love yourself which allows you to be in harmony with your own mind. That’s why its imperative to understand not the great secrets of the Universe, but our own mind. When the mind is in harmony with itself, it’s in harmony with all that is, it’s as simple as that; the same mind creates your chaos and harmony. Which of these you are conditioned to manufacture determines the your life.


Chaos is generated by the energy of a self serving mind and doesn’t allow anything but chaos, so if chaos is what’s being created than there won’t be much harmony. What direction the mind goes in is the energy that it generates, and to that extent will be your harmony; this is harmony with our own mind because only harmony can produce harmony.


Harmony is simply your ability to love yourself. This is your hearts direction, hence it becomes the direction of your mind. When love is generated it produces much different results than when the energy generated is self serving. The results are in the form of being in harmony with yourself and thus with all beings. To love is the simplest form of life, it’s what puts us in harmony with everything. Our harmony is in our ability to love, our chaos is in the conditioning to self serve. It’s up to each individual which energy is generated and what those results produce. Simply love and harmony will be or not and life will remain a struggle, but don’t blame life because it’s our own mind that’s conditioned to go in the direction that it goes in…

Aligned With What Is

An agitation is what causes the mind to become distracted, and what it becomes distracted from is the ability to live a life aligned with the Universal Energy of What Is…

The subtle distractions are what “I” uses in the form of conditioning for its fuel; it needs energy to survive. It uses emery from the past and future because in the present moment the only energy is of What Is and “I” can’t use it. What each and every distraction does is remove the ability to remain in the present moment aligned with a heart connection to life. The objects used are what needs to be identified so you don’t give in to their magnetic pull because without the awareness that these distractions exist, their pull is too powerful to overcome; even with awareness it’s still very difficult. The mind will need to settle to become aware of and overcome these subtle distractions. The nature of the all distractions are the same, they only differ by what’s reached. It’s their nature to take you from the present moment, that’s how you will know when a distraction arises.

A distraction is not an agitation, they are similar in nature because they are both of “I” but an agitation is what causes the attachment to a distraction. If the mind was settled without being agitated there wouldn’t be a distraction, but this will only occur when “I” isn’t in control. To be without distractions you must learn to see the agitation. When neither of these exist the only energy that remains is What Is. So the understanding of this is where you will experience peace, but don’t expect “I” to cooperate because to be without distractions is to be free of the “I”. It’s a given “I” will not go away without a fight, but only you can give it the energy it needs to survive by giving in to your agitations and thus your distractions…

Right Now Responsibility

Be responsible only for what life offers right now, not a make believe life conjured up by the Conditioned Mind that only exist as a story between your ears…

Think of these sayings and how they’re created and used to become distractions. What a tough week I had, It’s been the worse year of my life, If it wasn’t for bad luck I would have no luck at all, I just don’t like that person, He or she doesn’t like me, Hey that was my parking spot, I hope my boss is out today, I can’t wait to go on vacation next week, it’s Monday, and on an on. The other distractions that keep you distracted by your distractions are what’s reached for, food, tv, work, religion, politics, sex, spirituality, money, God, just to name a few, and how about the way we use people as distractions. The moment someone comes into view they’re labeled, which is just the way “I” uses this particular distraction. This list goes on and on and on with these distractions and it’s up to each individual to get in touch with this if you want to be free of these distraction which are all derived from the conditioning of “I”.

The irony of this is none of these distractions adds anything to enhance life one bit. They’re actually a block to the possibility of any enhancement and we alone are the ones creating this. Think of this, remove all the labeled thoughts that are used as distractions and just be with whatever it is that’s occurring right now. No distracted stories, just the reality of right now. Watch what you’re left with without the thoughts. Forget the stories others will keep theirs active for you, but forget yours. Let them simply fall away by not attaching to them. See what you’re left with when you do this. I’ll tell you what arose in me, I became responsible only for the life offered right now, not the one that is a make believe one conjured up by the Conditioned Mind that only exist as a made up story between your ears…

A Peaceful Heart

The distractions in place are our blocks to peace. They’re used by a mind that for whatever reason has been developed to distract the Universe from using us to spread the peace in our heart…

Stop being distracted by all your made up nonsense and see what’s left. The question is can you be with whats left? It seems simple enough, but it’s very difficult not to get carried away by distractions and make up stories. After all a book could probably be written with all the stories that you have, but you know something even if you write a book it really doesn’t mean all that much in the grand scheme of things. That is unless you allow it to be a distraction then it will mean something, but what it’ll mean will be in relation to how its being allowed to be a distraction. Distractions take you from your place of peace and regardless if it’s positive or negative as long as it’s a distraction it will do what it’s designed to do; take you from your place of peace.

To me the bottom line to life is whether there is peace or not, not if it’s the way you think it should be. If you’re at peace with what is there won’t be a need to create a distraction, but if one is created it’s because you don’t know how to be with what is. That’s about all you can control is being with what is, that’s unless you allow your distractions to control you, if you even know they exist. The less distracted you are, the more peace there will be in your life and the more in tune you will be with the Universe, and through the peace of no distractions the Universe can use you to spread its message of peace that’s in your heart…

Clean Your Side

Life will always take care of itself regardless if you think you’re its self appointed spokesperson and you’re going to set everyone straight who doesn’t conform to the way you think things should be…

Some people are really full of themselves and all they can see is their own righteousness. They will hurt others and justify it as it being for the greater good, but it’s only their assessment of what that greater good is. I would say the greater good is to love, but that’s just for me; I do know this, there is no love in judging. No matter how right you think you are, love is always tolerant, it will never hurt another. If someone is doing something that you think is wrong, life will be their judge, but people feel it’s their right to take matters into their own hands. It’s utter nonsense to think I know what’s best for you when I’m not even sure I know what’s best for me, but how we can justify and really be full of ourselves in taking the inventory of others.

It’s truly amazing how quick people are to judge others, and the judgements are opinion based and only deal with what the person judging thinks. It matters little to the one judging how they affect the person as long as they can get it off their chest. After all, they have deemed themselves life’s spokesperson and they have an obligation to help others see the errs of their ways, so they think. Who is to say that what a person thinks is right for everyone and what makes one person think they know what’s best for someone else. I know I will never tell you how dirty your side of the street is because mine is also dirty; it’s just part of being human, but it amazes me how many people think they’re justified and perfect enough to tell someone else what’s right and what’s wrong. There’s only what’s right for you no matter how dirty someone else’s side of the street may be to you…

Judge Others Judge Yourself

It’s from your own inner lack that all your judging arises from. If there was no inner lack, there would not be the need to judge and all you would be left with is love…

The nature of the Conditioned Mind is to look at others instead of looking at yourself. It’s sad as there’s no benefit for anyone from this type of behavior because it’s not based in love, it’s opinion based. The thing about life is it will take care of itself. It doesn’t need anyone’s help to straighten out others so they conform to what you think; the only reason anyone judges is because the person being judged isn’t conforming to the way you think they should be doing things. Come from a place of love and allow life to take care of itself, but if you must try and force others to conform to the way you think things should be, remember even if you’re right you’re still only hurting yourself not the person being judged.

Judge away if you thinks that’s what you need, but the only one to truly be hurt is the one judging. Your judgements which are always from “I” will keep you marred in the exact thing you are judging. Since every judgement is from “I” even if you’re right in your judgment, you still don’t have the right to judge because no one is perfect enough not to have their own closet of skeletons. It’s very sad that people will say whatever is on their mind regardless of how it affects someone else just to satisfy their own inner lack; it’s from this inner lack that all judgements arise. If there was no inner lack there would not be the need to judge, ever and all you would be left with is love…

False Identification of Self

The Universe provides everyone with unlimited resources, it’s the thinking mind that creates a block of a false identification of self which leads to death while you are alive…

In the beginning of your existence if you weren’t given a name for identification purposes, how would you identify yourself? Who would you make yourself out to be? It is because of our naming process that we attach to an “I” Self. At the onset of your life begins the lie of who you are and all the nonsense of a mind based sense of self. It’s not that the self doesn’t exist, it just doesn’t exist in the way you think it does. This is a lie that causes a great deal of suffering because it creates the delusion that things are as they appear, and the more this is held onto the more this delusion is solidified in the subconscious which makes you believe that things are as they appear and you are who you think you are. Only in quietness will this be understood because the lie of a Conditioned Mind is what solidifies this false identification of self.

Your true essence underneath this lie of false identification is always there, it’s just not seen because it’s blocked out. It can be likened to your arteries clogging and blocking the blood to your heart which keeps your heart from operating in the most beneficial way. This is what happens when your true nature is blocked from arising; you don’t operate in the most beneficial way. These blocks are detrimental to your physical and spiritual well being. They lead to spiritual and physical death unless the blockage is undone. In the physical form when your arteries become clogged the heart will eventually stop. In the spiritual form the blockage leads to the death of your harmony with life (your spirit). Both cases are equally as deadly and it isn’t always known that this is occurring until it’s too late. At the core of this is the false identification of self and until this is understood, death is imminent while you are alive…

Don't Think and Live

Because of the small minded limited view developed, you think that what you think about is so important, but it’s only important to the small minded limited I Self…

To truly live you will have to learn to be true to yourself and this will require an entirely different way to view life. For the current view to become different so you’re in harmony with life, the heart must open to a view that touches the unlimited resources of the Universe. That means you will have to let go of the small minded limited I Self who thinks, thinks, and thinks and holds onto this thinking as the foundation of life. If you must think, think about this, where do all the issues you have with life formulate from and does your thinking about them solve anything? If it does than go ahead and think, but don’t waste time thinking about things that have no resolution.

This is just one way the Conditioned Mind keeps you in its prison to the delusional I Self. This I Self justifies what it’s thinking about, but it doesn’t solve anything and it becomes more ingrained in the subconscious false “I”. The I Self justifies what it thinks about and makes it soooo important, but it really is only important to your small self because you’re not in tune with the unlimited resources of the Universe. Human behavior hasn’t changed much, it may have even gotten more conditioned. Because of the small minded limited view developed, you think that what you think about is so important, but it’s only important to the small minded limited I Self. Wake up, nothing you think about is that important except to the Conditioned Mind. This is the delusion created and until you break free of this hold, you will be walking around not living in harmony with the Universe. And basically by not living life in harmony with the Universe you’re not truly living, and you will not realize just how out of touch you really are…